tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43646528662424381662024-03-05T18:33:42.333+08:00The Pickup Guidebook 溝女指南Miraclehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12323524972254810930noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4364652866242438166.post-34702348181877386422016-11-10T14:11:00.000+08:002016-11-10T14:13:12.462+08:00《真正用家的信》<div dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14.6667px; white-space: pre-wrap;">這是一篇較特別的客戶感想,那並非來自畢業學員,而是真正用家所寫;放在網頁的話,我也覺得有些尷尬,因為一定有些人會覺得很假,所以將它放在Blog裏。但無論你信又好唔信又好,裏面有些地方確實說到重點,你有興趣便看吧!</span><span style="font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14.6667px; white-space: pre-wrap;">(來信經過少量收改,務求在保持原汁原味下令文句通順)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14.6667px; line-height: 1.38; white-space: pre-wrap;">這是女性第二個最常問的問題,原因是為了得知你的「生存價值」。在與人初相識時,詢問對方職業是正常不過的事;因為工作佔了我們生活三份一時間; 在香港超長的工時來說更甚。所以說了解職業;便能了解一個人並不為過。</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14.6667px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">女性在擇偶時,看重男性的生存價值;當中最具代表性的是賺錢能力。對女性來說一個工作於私人銀行的男人,絕對比一個普通的上班族來得有生存價值;這是拜金嗎?絕對</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14.6667px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">毋</span><span style="font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14.6667px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">庸置疑,但上過我課堂的學生會知道,這並沒有什麼不妥;就如同咸濕是男人的天性,我們也會認為大波女人較平胸女人來得吸引,這是刻印在我們基因裏的本性。所以男人必須好好經營自己的事業是恆久不變的定律;但你可能會晦氣地問:「我的職業就是這樣差,那怎麼辦?」你可以將注意力轉移到別處;例如在你回答相關問題時,補上一句:「但這只是暫時性的,因為我的目標是⋯⋯」這樣便可以將注意力從職業轉移到你的目標或夢想上。當然,大前題是你真的有想過你的目標是什麼及你真的有夢想吧。</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14.6667px; line-height: 1.38; white-space: pre-wrap;">當女性問到我的職業時,我會跟她們玩起猜職業遊戲。遊戲的重點是要解釋自己的猜測;這能反映出她怎樣看你。跟女性相處時,如能適時加入這些小玩意,絕對能令溝通變得更加有趣。</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14.6667px; line-height: 1.38; white-space: pre-wrap;">通常我會先猜她是從事藝術工作,接著我便會說:「有沒有人說你很有藝術氣質?你的樣子很像畢加索的畫,即左眼在右邊面的那種......」這運用了一啖砂糖一啖屎的Cat String Theory(詳見《溝女必殺技 Neg & Cat String Theory》 的一著,女性通常都會被我逗得哭笑不得。</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14.6667px; line-height: 1.38; white-space: pre-wrap;">我第二個猜的職業是教師;當她問我為什麼這樣猜時,我便說:「看你斯斯文文,感覺又有些盲(音:萌)塞⋯⋯」當然我只不過是借故「呢甩」她;曾經在夜店裏搭訕了一位真正的老師,她很驚訝我為何會知道,我就說:「我看人很準的」,當然這又是我的招牌單眼鬼臉出招的時候了。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14.6667px; line-height: 1.38; white-space: pre-wrap;">題外話,很多人問我會不會向女性透露我教授Pickup的工作,他們認為這會影響我溝女;但我認為這反而是一個篩選的機制。有些女性在聽到我的職業後,會馬上落閘放狗地說:「那我不是很危險嗎?」我會這樣回覆她:「放心,這樣想的話,你很安全。」我這一句發放的訊息是這麼膚淺的你, 絕不是我的菜;相反,在知悉後,對我更加興致勃勃,雀躍地跟我討論的女生才更合我的口味。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14.6667px; line-height: 1.38; white-space: pre-wrap;">PS 對於女性的旁敲則擊,我基本上不以為言;但對一些不識大體,直接問我幾錢人工、開什麼車,什至是有幾多隻錶的女性,我通常會直接答:「與你何干!」</span></div>
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跟上一篇一樣,以上的對答並非絕對,純粹是個人的經驗分享;所以大家不一定要照板煮碗,可以在參考過後,加入屬於自己的原素,發展出個人的Pickup套路。<br />
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男性在與女性相處時,總會對女性的心意感到一頭霧水;其實女性亦然,只是女性的觀察力一般比男性強,而且她們懂得運用發問去試探男性的意向。在往後幾篇文章裏,我會跟大家分享一些女性常用來投石問路的問題,分析其真正含意,與及分享一些能令你們關係更進一步的應對方法。<br />
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當女性問及你的年齡時,代表她對你有興趣,所以想知道你在不在她對象的年齡範圍內;但你可能只是剛好過了她的最低標準而已,未必真的很吸引她;不過這也可算是個初部的徵兆,起碼她將你放在了考慮之列。但如果她不問,則可以有兩個解釋。第一;一看便能知道你大約的年紀,所以不用問。這通常發生在年輕的男性身上;對女性來說三十至五十的男性才是最難分辨,男人的外型可以停留在這階段很久。第二;她對你不感興趣,所以不問也罷。如果是後者,很明顯你對她的吸引力不足,建議大家要在吸引(Attraction)方面多下功夫。<br />
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通常在一般口語的對話時,女性會這樣問:「你幾大呀?」那我就會反問:「你說那兒?」。這是一個典型地扭曲了她意思的把戲,令她好像問你的那話兒有多大一樣,女性是必定會尷尬及笑的。這是一個刺激其情感的手段,而這手段就有三個作用。<br />
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第一;令她的情感波動,如果一個女性在與你相處時心如止水,你是絕對溝不到她的。你需要令她的內心泛起漣漪,她才會對你有感覺,才會視你為選擇對象。<br />
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第二,讓她感到你的幽默;這點很重要,在女性的擇偶條件中,幽默感不是最先決,但卻一定在前五甲內,所以如果能適時表現你的幽默感,絕對是你溝女上的一大助力。而且若她先入為主地認為你是喜歡開玩笑的人,她便會放寛你往後冒犯到她的標準,那麼你的攻勢才可不斷升級。<br />
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第三,初部地性愛化(Sexualize the game)你們的溝通,有助擴張你們往後對話的層次,更容易性愛化你們的關係。普通朋友和男女朋友的最大分別可說是有否親密接觸,所以如果能初步模擬你們的情侶關係,對於你們的發展會起到很大的作用。<br />
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通常這幽默的一著會令他就此打住,但有些女生會死心不息地追問;我通常有以下幾種方法應對。<br />
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第一,我會反過來要她猜,無論她猜什麼我也會奸狡地說:「謝謝你,就當是這樣吧!」<br />
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第二,我會說:「也不是什麼秘密,但看你這樣想知道,就是不想告訴你,求我吧!」,再配以一個我招牌的單眼鬼臉,她會被我氣得不知好嬲還是好笑。<br />
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第三, 我會說:「你真的對我很有興趣呢!」;這個一定要用一種很俏皮輕挑的口吻去說,否則很容易變成「踢爆」了她。<br />
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在以上的應對裏,我沒有正面回答對方問題;而是帶她遊一陣花園,言語上玩弄一下她,嘴上佔一下她便宜。女性並不會因此感到反感,她們會覺得你是在跟她「調情(Flirt)」;她們會樂在其中,因而對你更加趨之若鶩。<br />
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PS 在與女性溝通時,切忌發展成一問一答的盤問局面。如果對方一發問,你便將所有事和盤托出;這樣你只會被視為一條「悶棍」,往後更難以再約到她。<br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14.6667px; line-height: 1.38; white-space: pre-wrap;">在過程中,你需要保持低調,將對她的意圖保密;這說法有些吊詭,其實大家暗地裏也知道是什麼一回事,當然是互有意思吧;否則你怎會約她,她又怎會應約。但現實是若你表現得太明目張膽,你很大機會會失敗;因為這嚴重刺激了女性的ASD(反淫蕩機制)。試想當你表明來意,如她還跟你見面約會,她會覺得自己沒有矜持,而刻意迴避你;你可能需要多花幾倍力才能打動她。就算你擁有超屈機的靚仔富二代設定,她落搭的話,只會更覺自己cheap。因此為了自己著想,不要無故增加難易度;為了她著想,讓她可以給自己一個藉口:「朋友來的,他應該不是追我。」這樣一個死不開口;一個裝傻到底,這就是張力、這就是曖昧;溝女遊戲就是要這樣才好玩、才禁(音:襟)玩。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14.6667px; line-height: 1.38; white-space: pre-wrap;">就以上所說,溝女需要低調行事,所以大家特別要留意,在這場面試中,切忌「求賣」及「求買」。求賣是指你很想對方要你,你愈求賣,對方只會愈覺有詐;試想一個賣橙的小販不斷熱烈地向你推銷他的橙,你也會懷疑那是爛橙吧。同理,你須要表現出的是有麝自然香的「唔憂賣」態度。而求買則是指你很想要對方,展現出一副「中盤」模樣的你,會令彼此的價值平衡馬上崩壞。有求於她的你會頓時處於下風,掌握著生殺大權的她則站在壓倒性的優勢;此時她一定會「吊高來賣」,而你溝到她的可能性便會大幅降低。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14.6667px; line-height: 1.38; white-space: pre-wrap;">女性隱藏自身意向的功夫比我們老練很多,在之前的文章中也說過女性被溝的經驗可以早在十一歲時便開始;十一歲時,老實說我們識條毛咩!她們是箇中高手,因此之前我曾在《IOI》一文中,介紹過一些女性的興趣指標,讓大家可以察知她們的想法;從而調節你的攻勢。但在實際情況時,女性是會透過發問向你探口風,想確認你的意向;而從她們的問題中也會洩露了她們對你的真實想法。</span></div>
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最近跟一位女生約會,我們到了一家特式的餐廳吃飯;一到步,餐廳老闆熱情地跟我們打招呼。在彼此介紹過後,他帶我們參觀了餐廳,安排我們坐在全店最佳的位置上,並拿出了當天最新鮮的食物來招待我們,最後還讓我們試喝了他新調的雞尾酒。飯後,女生以一種很「冧」、很欣賞的態度,問了我一個促使我寫這篇文章的問題:<br />
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「為什麼你總能找到一些特別的地方,而感覺你跟那裏的人都很混熟呢?」<br />
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在上例中,餐廳老闆跟我談笑風生、帶我們參觀其店鋪及請我們喝酒,在女性眼中這是一件非常有型的事,她會感到我很吃得開。但老實說,這只是我第三次光顧這家餐廳;我能跟老闆混熟的原因是因為我有著高度的「社交價值(Social Value)」。<br />
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社交價值是指一個人在其社交圈中,有沒有能傳遞給他人的價值;簡單來說就是其他人覺得你值不值得認識。在現今社會,人際關係變得非常重要;一個人的成功與否已不再單單取決於個人能力,人脈廣的人成功機會相對較高,這就意味著可動用的資源會較豐富。女性深明此點,因此也傾向於選擇社交價值高的男人;所以能好好經營自身的人際網絡,不論在溝女,還是在個人發展上也絕對是一大優勢。<br />
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我非常建議大家先從餐廳著手經營社交價值;第一,你往後一定用得著,因為你也會需要一些約會食飯的地方;想想在約會女性時,你可以拋出一句:「帶你去一個特別的地方」,那便能免卻很多跟她周旋的麻煩。第二,你絕對不會輸,作為一個生意人,店主也會明白人脈的重要性;對他來說你的光顧和口碑宣傳,就是你能傳遞給他的價值,所以基本上他一定很樂意跟你混熟。<br />
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在第一次光顧時,我會刻意與對方聊天;稱讚其菜式及環境等等,令對方留下印象(當然是真的值得讚才這樣做,否則會很假)。在聊天時,請一定要簡單介紹自己及詢問對方的名字;我發現到有些人,特別是年輕人不太習慣這樣做,結果變成了「齋吹水」。我明白他們是怕給人一種有所圖的感覺;其實在交際應酬時,聊上一兩句後介紹自己,再問對方的名字是正常不過;反而說了一大遍,卻不互相認識感覺更是奇怪,而且也白忙了一場。然後我會在短期內再一次光顧,這時的重點是要叫得出對方的名字;在建立人際關係時,記著對方的名字是十分重要,對方會感到你重視他,因而對你留下較好印象;自然很快便會跟你熟絡起來。<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11110364444365371147noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4364652866242438166.post-71342954841480673412015-10-07T17:09:00.002+08:002015-10-08T09:39:08.788+08:00《溝女必殺技 Neg & Cat String Theory 》<div dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14.666666666666666px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">正所謂蔫豬頭都總有盲鼻菩薩,其實不論好醜,大部分女人身邊都總有男人對她們阿諛奉承;而吊詭的是你對她愈好,你愈會被視為觀音兵。你可能認為你的女神不是這樣,但女人卻是口是心非的動物,口裏不會承認,但她們確實以有多少男人問津來釐定自身價值;就連我那將近70歲的老媽,周不時也會懷免一下當年有多少裙下之臣。在女性角度,真愛可能只有一個,但守候在旁的預備軍則多多益善;女人就喜歡 「兵臨城下」的感覺。如要攻陷她們,你必需要出奇制勝。</span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Kaiti SC Black"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Kaiti SC Black"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">最近</span>發<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Kaiti SC Black";">生了一件疑似非</span>禮<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Kaiti SC Black";">案,男子拍女仔手臂搭</span>訕<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Kaiti SC Black";">被指非</span>禮<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Kaiti SC Black";">,跟着</span>當<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Kaiti SC Black";">然有很多法律</span>專<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Kaiti SC Black";">家</span>現<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Kaiti SC Black";">身解</span>話<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Kaiti SC Black";">,</span>說無<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Kaiti SC Black";">故的接</span>觸<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Kaiti SC Black";">女性是</span>嚴<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Kaiti SC Black";">重罪行</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Kaiti SC Black"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">。</span></span></h4>
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">大家可想像到一</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">個</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">醉</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">漢</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">忽然出</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">現</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">在</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">你面前,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">不要說</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">摸你,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">單</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">單是</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">跟</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">你</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">說話</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">,你</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">也會</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">怕</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">他不知</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">會對</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">你</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">幹</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">什</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">麼</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">吧!</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">那更</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">何</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">況</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">是一</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">個</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">夜</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">歸</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">的</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">單</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">身女子呢?她</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">會</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">提防也是</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">無</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">可口非,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">而你</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">在</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">這</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">情</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">況</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">拍她,就等同在刺激一</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">隻驚</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">弓之</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">鳥</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">我明白很多人會需要在酒精幫助下,才敢向女性搭訕,但老實說我平時就算到夜場也甚少喝酒,一來我需要絕對清醒的頭腦,二來是它只會降低你的成功率。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">Bootcamp<span lang="ZH-TW">是</span>PUA<span lang="ZH-TW">傳統的實戰訓練,教練會帶學生們到不同的場景,例如夜店、商場、咖啡店、書局,甚至乎在街上向女性進行搭訕,目的除了是讓他們將</span>Pickup<span lang="ZH-TW">技巧學以致用外,最主要是讓他們克服面對女性時的接近焦慮(</span>Approach </span><span style="background: white; color: #444444; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">Anxiety, AA)</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background: white; color: #444444; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">,而在過程中更會直接指出他們的毛病,並予以改善。</span><span style="background: white; color: #444444; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="background: white; color: #444444; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">PUA </span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">Bootcamp<span lang="ZH-TW">有一條鐵規需要遵守,那就是要絕對服從教練的命令,就算是認為不合理的事情;這聽起來很無理,但其實這卻是他們能否衝破舊有溝不到女的模式之關鍵。但<span style="background: white; color: #444444;">今次有一位學員很「惡教」,他非常自我,很多時不聽我的指示。我要求他在出席前剪掉那「嬲休」的古烈治頭,但他卻跟我說很想試試這個髮型的效果;結果第一晚他完全地碰壁,沒一個女孩理會他。第二晚,他勉為其難地接受我的意見,配戴一個螢光黃色的頭箍;他終於體會到截然不同的世界,自此對我心悅誠服,成績也突飛猛進起來。</span></span><span style="background: white; color: #444444;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11110364444365371147noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4364652866242438166.post-6483493901046074972015-07-30T11:47:00.000+08:002015-09-30T12:55:21.389+08:00《三個極速「㩒」著女性的按鈕(一)》L Magazine專欄-溝理<div class="MsoNormal">
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</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">PUA <span lang="ZH-TW">這個字帶進了我的世界,他向我透露了很多這方面的資訊,令我眼界大開。當然我亦有問他是否其中一份子,他笑言</span>PUA<span lang="ZH-TW">就像吸血鬼,他們神秘而且充滿魅力,能令女性神暈</span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background: white; font-family: 新細明體, serif;">癲倒;不同的是</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">吸血鬼以血為生,而</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">PUA<span lang="ZH-TW">則以女為食。而他追求女性的能力則是與生俱來的,就正如吸血鬼的真祖一樣</span>……(<span lang="ZH-TW">下删五百字,全是他的自我陶醉</span>)<span lang="ZH-TW">,而這就是為什麼我稱他為「真祖」的原因。</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">最近跟一位朋友飯聚,他是我從前的</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;"> Pick up <span lang="ZH-TW">學生,記得當時他是一個心口掛個勇字便向女性直衝的小伙子,每每把女生嚇跑。但今次見面,發現他明顯成熟了,而且與他的一席話,更令我感到老懷安慰
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">女性認為愛情應該是兩個人在偶然的場合下邂逅,互相擦出了一點火花,而這點火花在蘊釀後再爆發,變成了熣燦</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: "Adobe 明體 Std L","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Adobe 明體 Std L"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">奪目的煙花,公主和王子從此過著幸福快樂</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">的生活。辜勿論這是否愛情的真締,但這就是女性對愛情的奇想,而這造就了男性們一個結識到異性的理想場合— 婚宴。</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">第二個原因是合理性。女性其實有一個作業系統,稱為「反淫蕩機制(</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">Anti Slut Defence, ASD<span lang="ZH-TW">)」;那就是絕對不要被親人、朋友、社會,甚至是自己視為淫婦,而這正正就是所謂的矜持。試想想如果一個女性被一個陌生男性搭訕,而她又馬上「落搭」,試問其他人會怎樣看她?她一定會被視為淫婦,而女性是非常介意這罪名的,她寧可放棄一段有機會發展的關係,也必定要保住自己的「貞節牌坊」。而婚宴就正正給了她們一個「合理的理由」去迴避了</span>ASD<span lang="ZH-TW">,這是因為社會認同的問題,並没有特別理由的,純粹是因為大部份人認為在婚宴上認識到另一半是合理的,所以它就是合理的。</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Approach<span lang="ZH-TW">」和「</span>Warm Approach<span lang="ZH-TW">」,</span>Cold
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Approach<span lang="ZH-TW">就是指在同一個場合下,你們之間是有關係的,例如在婚宴上,你們均是一對新人的親友,她就算有多不喜歡你,也會「應酬」你,因為她不希望得失主人家。因此,基本上</span>Warm
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">記得當晚是一個空中小姐的婚宴,全場衣香鬢影,滿是高挑亮麗的年輕女孩,而我旁邊的一席更是全女班,平均分數高達</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">9.5<span lang="ZH-TW">分(</span>10<span lang="ZH-TW">分滿分),引用我朋友的話:「最唔得嗰個都好得!」。但當時愚頓的我,便只有看的份兒,不敢上前去認識她們,結果整晚被那種無力感</span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: "Adobe 明體 Std L","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Adobe 明體 Std L"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">將我</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">煎熬得死去活來。現在回想起來,當晚其實那些女孩是發放了很多訊息引誘我過去的,但奈何自己當時能力有限,白白錯過了這千載難逢的機會。幸好正正是這次的遭遇令到我決心去學習</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">Pick up<span lang="ZH-TW">,現在每逢到了婚宴場合,我也必定能「大放異彩」,真是有賴這次難得的體驗。</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">首先,你不介意一個人出席婚宴。有些人很古縮,如果沒有人相伴往往寧願不出席,導致白白喪失認識異性的機會。其實一個人出席有很多好處,第一,可以避免自己只侷限在相識的人之間的交談。第二,可以成為一個很好的搭訕理由。例如引述自己當晚只是獨自前來,基本上稍為有體面的女性也會樂於「照顧」你。第三,讓女性更容易接近你。如果你已有一個朋友的</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: "Adobe 明體 Std L","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Adobe 明體 Std L"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">圈子在運行,對你有興趣的女子很難貿貿然介入。</span><span style="font-family: "Adobe 明體 Std L","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Adobe 明體 Std L"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11110364444365371147noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4364652866242438166.post-88547527154942485152015-06-18T11:38:00.000+08:002015-09-30T12:28:38.154+08:00《謎思》L Magazine專欄-溝理<div class="MsoNormal">
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<span style="color: #444444;">早前跟友人相約去晚飯聚舊,飯後我們到了一家別緻的小酒吧,他介紹了幾個新朋友給我認識,當他們知道我的工作後均興致勃勃地向我請教一些溝女的心得。而在過程中,他們令我有很大的啟發,原來普遍的男性在溝女上也存在著一些有趣的謎思,所以今期想跟大家一起</span><br />
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